Ms/Rev Pat loves life and lives it passionately:
from her ministry (she's an ordained minister in MCC) to her relationships.
Entering "the scene" thirteen years ago, Pat has traveled many roads
on her leather journey. A Ma’am for many years, she first bottomed to
a Mistress years ago, however she likes to say now that she is a "bottom
to God." What is most important to her are the basics she has learned
in years of training:
• The ethics of honor
• Integrity
• Dedication
• ...and not forgetting to have fun!
These basics have helped to enrich all aspects of her life...her leather
walk, her spirituality, and her social justice passions.
Recipient
of Pantheon's Readers' Choice Award, the Unsung Hero Award from Jill
Carter, IMsL '96, and the Martin Luther King, Jr. Diversity Award,
she believes that discussing the uncomfortable sheds light, builds bridges,
dispels myths and allows for unhealthy behavior to end.
For
several years, she has presented around the country on topics that range
from Spirituality & SM; SM-The Basics; Domestic Violence and SM: What's
the Difference; Single Tails; and Ma'am/slave relationships. She recently
relocated to Southern CA from the Land of Enchantment (New Mexico) with
her wife, lover, friend, and slave, stephanie.
They have a 24/7 balanced relationship that intertwines their Ma'am/slave
relationship within their daily lives.
Bio
current as of 5-1-04
2006
Presentation:
A
Tribal Fire Signature Event
This year at our Soul Dance we will celebrate the power of our sensuality,
sexuality, and dance from the depths of our beings! What a way to begin
the weekend! Drawing from the spirit of Beltane...we will allow ourselves
to bring forth all that we are willing to "give birth" to this weekend
and in the near future. This weekend is about Saints & Sinners, and
it's also about our spirituality, our sexuality and the power within.
The Dance reminds us that our bodies are sacred, as are our souls. We
shall have an opportunity to use of all of ourselves to travel inward
and journey outwards, reconnecting with our selves and our community
through our energy and our hearts.
The Tribal Soul Dance is an experience supported by spiritual guides,
music and our bodies to take you on a journey
to help cleanse and heal your soul. It will be an uplifting experience
that can help you discover more of the driving spirit within you. Take
yourself to a space where you can release your mind's control over your
body and soul.
Limited Admittance. You must make a reservation for this special event.
Your reservation will be secured based on when your registration fee
is received.
Saturday, May 6, 9:30am till lunch. Wear very comfortable clothing that
you can move in (in other words, leather wear isn't necessarily recommended).
You will be bare foot. Men may want to remove their shirts, women may
wish to wear sports bras (or make sure that the appropriate areas of
your breasts are covered). We will be using sage lightly, however, no
cologne, please.
2005
Presentations:
Spirituality
and SM -
SM & Spirituality: Bound in our Hearts - Kinky
folk are some of the most spiritual people around--delving into the
depths of trust, vulnerability and openness of themselves and their
partners. No longer considered mutually exclusive, SM & Spirituality
are now often being explored together in our community. In our time
together, we will explore the connections of these two aspects of life,
giving voice to what many of us already know in our hearts. We will
also have some hands-on experience of the journey.
Tribal
Soul Dance -
Our bodies are sacred, as are our souls. We shall have
an opportunity to use of all of ourselves to travel inward and journey
outwards, reconnecting with our selves and our community through our
energy and our hearts.
The Tribal Soul Dance is an experience supported by spiritual guides,
music and our bodies to take you on a journey to help cleanse and heal
your soul. It will be an uplifting experience that can help you discover
more of the driving spirit within you. Take yourself to a space where
you can release your mind's control over your body and soul.
Limited Admittance. You must make a reservation for this special event.
Your reservation will be secured based on when your registration fee
is received.
Saturday morning. Wear very comfortable clothing that you can move in
(in other words, leather wear isn't necessarily recommended). You will
be bare foot. Men may want to remove their shirts, women may wish to
wear sports bras (or make sure that the appropriate areas of your breasts
are covered). We will be using sage lightly, however, no cologne, please.
This experience will be facilitated by Rev. Pat who is also presenting
throughout the weekend.
2004
Presentations
SM & Spirituality: Bound in our Hearts - Kinky
folk are some of the most spiritual people around--delving into the
depths of trust, vulnerability and openness of themselves and their
partners. No longer considered mutually exclusive, SM & Spirituality
are now often being explored together in our community. In our time
together, we will explore the connections of these two aspects of life,
giving voice to what many of us already know in our hearts. We will
also have some hands-on experience of the journey.
Beyond
Boundaries and Limits~ The Mindfucking "playground".
Years ago the term "Edgeplayer" was given to those select few folks
who did not care what other players felt about them. In many instances,
the general population labeled them "unsafe". What most of the general
population was unaware of was that the Gay male leather community was
exploring mind-fields far before they had an actual "title". Today the
title of Edgeplayer/Mindfucker are thrown around with little concern
as to how others feel because today's trend has grown into most players
claiming to be in this category. I suppose it's sexy and thrilling to
say one is an Edgeplayer. Many years ago, I knew it was what I wanted
to grow up to be~ Just like those very few people who truly scared the
general kink public and more importantly, they scared the hell out of
me. I wanted to be Sexy, different and take my play to the ultimate
level, close to where both physical and emotional danger lie. I knew
it would be the only place that would satisfy this deep thing inside
me, only then would I be free. Interested, come explore with the class.
There is no "true way" to teach someone where their boundaries lie,
but I'm sure I can give you some GREAT pointers!
IMPORTANT NOTE: THIS CLASS IS NOT FOR THE NOVICE OR SENSTIVE
OF HEART. IF YOU FEEL YOU MAY HAVE TRIGGERS, THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER
AMAZING CLASSES BEING OFFERED. JUDGE NOT UNTIL YOU ARE WILLING TO JUDGE
YOURSELF.
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