Lolita Wolf

Lolita Wolf describes herself as a poly switch who plays pansexually. She is an activist who defends the rights of S/M practitioners, spreads the word about S/M, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains "to have fun."

Lolita has many specialties including bondage, impact play of all sorts, hot wax, poly relationships, social skills, communication and negotiation, CBT, etc. Lolita has presented workshops for universities and organizations across the country and she has authored two books: "CBT in a nutshell" and "Spanking."

She is an Emeritus Board Member of both the Eulenspeigel Society (TES) and Leather Leadership Conference, former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA, an associate member of New York boys of Leather and she is active with National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and Leather Pride Night. Lolita has received numerous awards including two Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards, a Lifetime Achievement Award from the National Leather Association, the Vaughn Keith National Education Award from Black Rose, the Defenders NY Founders Award and the 2000 Centurion Award from the Leather Archives & Museum. A six year old Princess who lies about her age, Lolita manages to stir up trouble and get her own way (most of the time).

Her website is at http://www.leatheryenta.com/.

Bio current as of 2-1-2011

2011 Presentations:

The Dynamics of Co-Topping - with Boymeat
One of the most common pick-up scenes around is co-topping. Two (or more) tops standing around, one (or more) victims prime for the hunt… game on right? Sometimes it can lead to the most exciting and satisfying scenes around… and other times they can be absolute disasters. Lolita and Boymeat have been co-topping together for years, and as switches have bottomed to many a dynamic duo. With years of study and thought, they have learned first hand what works when co-topping… and what doesn't. It's not as simple as it looks… and they'll share with you why and how to pull it off successfully. Then they'll turn their attention to a lovely victim… er… volunteer, for a co-topping demo of deliciousness.

The Erotic Impact of Spanking
Some of us get spanked just because it feels good. It feels very good! Do it the right way and it can give you and your partner much pleasure. The goal is not to hurt your partner but rather to give him or her an erotic and sensual experience. This class will emphasize psychological aspects as well as techniques.

How To Be A Greedy Pig: Let Me Count The Ways
Polyamory, swinging, open marriage, being a slut are all valid lifestyle choices. Are you ready to juggle multiple relationships? Are you up for the challenge? There are no pre-set rules. You can customize your sexual, play, emotional and spiritual needs to suit yourself.

2003 Presentations:

Sensory Deprivation & Control - Controlling a bottom’s senses (sight, hearing, taste, smell, and touch) can effectively change the whole psychology of a person. This can be done for erotic pleasure or “torture.” We’ll be exploring various toys and techniques (both store-bought and homemade) that you can use to enhance both the reality and the fantasy in a scene. Of course, we will deal with all the safety issues.

Kidz Rule! Age Play for Consenting Adults - Age Play is fantasy role play where the reality of your and your partner’s (or partners’) age and/or gender does not matter. We are talking about consenting adults here - this is not about pedophilia! Age play can be for a scene or can be incorporated into a 24/7 relationship. It might include sex, D/s SM or not. Come and learn how to be a kid again! Or how to relate to someone who likes to be a kid!

Wax and Fire Play - Some like it hot! Learn how to warm up your partner and add power and beauty to your scene. We’ll cover preparation, choosing/making the best tools, and even etiquette. Knowing the techniques and appropriate safety information will allow you to enjoy these activities to their erotic max. We are going to pour it on!