JLubeJack

JLubeJack (JLJ) is a polyamorous bisexual switch (90% top/10% SAMMIE) in the Whee4 Quartet with Mistress Malicia, Knotty Jeanette, and slaverobin. He is head of the new Leather Heart Clan Leather Family. He has been in the leather/BDSM scene for 22 years.

JLJ is a Founding Member and Past President of the Chicago Leather Club, past president of Leather United Chicago, and an associate member of 11 other leather clubs including NLA-Dallas and NLA-I. He's been a judge for leather contests and is a voracious reader of all books related to BDSM, leather, and sex/mores-related politics and history. He has been a 1-on-1 Mentor for the year-long Dallas Mentor Program for aspiring Dominants and a presenter for the Dallas sub Mentor Program on Emotional Unavailability.

An enthusiastic and lively presenter, he's given more than 90 seminars on a wide variety of scene topics & kinks. Among others, he's presented at: International LeatherSIR & Leatherboy, Beyond Vanilla, Kinky Kollege (Chicago), DASH (Chicago Leather Club), Tournament (Knights of Leather - Minnesota), and to Texas groups such as SAADE (Austin), DFW Power Exchange, NLA-Dallas, NEEAL, DFW-Alt.com, DFW Leatherboys (Dallas), DarkFyre, Bound & Determined and many others.

He is now writing a book on fisting, was a columnist for AssPig.com and will be Issue Coordinator for an anal fisting book for Nazca Plains. His fiction writing has appeared in several scene magazines and Web sites including Black Sheets and Powerfist.com.

A long-time and enthusiastic participant in anal play and fisting, he's fisted with a little over 800 women and men - 34 at his last birthday celebration. However, he is also an avid practitioner of many other edgy sensation kinks including knife play, play piercing, scrotal infusions, catheterization, fire play and pumping… to list a few. He also gives presentations on orientation issues in the community, sex safety, Leather & BDSM protocols, Leather history - as well as the history of sex in Western culture.

A former Associated Press photographer and newspaper columnist, he's now an avid scene photographer whose images have appeared in scene magazines such as Black Sheets and on Web sites such as BMEzine and Redclouds. He also has a business developing Web sites for scene-related individuals and businesses and also specializes in scene-related photography.

You can can reach him at JLubeJack@gmail.com, he's JLubeJack on FetLife.

Bio current as of December 5, 2009

2011 Presentations:
Pumping: Plumping Precious - Hims & Hers
If it feels good… pump it! Traditionally thought of only as a way to plump up man-meat, you can also do nipples and balls, pussies and anuses (anae?). Targeted to both genders, this one will surely suck you in. In appropriate venues, there can be cylinders-on demos and audience participation.

Bisexuality: Who’s On First, Who’s On Next?
There are those - and we are among them - who believe that sexuality is not about boxes but about a bell curve. We all range along that curve, being more het sometimes, more bi others throughout our lives - even over the course of a week! This seminar is about our own constantly evolving choices in our sexuality - and it explores the bisexuality options available to us all...

Life in a Leather Family: Joys, Issues & Pitfalls
Who's the boss? Answer that and you have a Leather Family, right? Not quite. For sure, there is hierarchy and degrees of protocol in any Leather Family. However, there are day-to-day issues that must be addressed in order to keep life calm. We will look at the formation, evolution, and maintenance of a Leather Family and examine the joys, issues, and pitfalls that face every Family.

2010 Presentations:

Anal Play & Anal Sex: The No-Nos That are YES!-YES! - with Mistress Malicia
Yet another taboo in the seemingly end-less lineup of “Thou shalt nots” we've all suffered. This seminar will take a playful look at the Hole-We-All-Share, delve into its anatomy, touch on its delights, remark on rimming, and enter into its dark mysteries. In appropriate venues, there can be finger-finessing demos and audience participation.

Polyamory: Hit or myth - with Mistress Malicia
Many people view polyamory as the easy way to achieve a loving partnership. What does it take to live successfully in a polyamorous relationship? What are the considerations of moving another lover into your household? What are the pitfalls to avoid? And how easy is it, really? The Whee4 Quartet (LacySteele, JLubeJack, slaverobin and knotty janee) draw on their experiences and many, many others' to deal with these questions, and more, providing recipes for success - and failure.

Mindfucks: Tweaking Their Heads
One of the great joys of life is making a bottom squirm with no more effort than the power of suggestion. Fear? No problem. Desire? Not an issue. We'll talk about using ALL of the sense along with the power of suggestion to hit their buttons - and make a scene that's great for bottom AND top!

Switches, Tops & Bottoms: Straddlin' the Fence
Are you strictly Top? …sublimely sub? Or are you one of those weird creatures (like me) we call a “S/switch”. This presentation brings out the positives and negatives of playing on both sides of the fence—and the history of reactions that choice elicits in the scene. Always a lively topic for audience discussion.