Boymeat

Boymeat is a bisexual, polyamourous switch, with a penchant for foot fetishism, incest role play and piss play. Boymeat is rumored to be the quite the sadist. An aspirational handcuff collector and leather history slut, he is the man who nerve.com said "makes the Marquis de Sade look like Pat Boone." Discovering The Eulenspiegel Society (TES) at the age of 19, he quickly became an active participant and presenter in the New York SM scene. Best known for his outreach to the younger members of our community, he co-created the concept of The Next Generation (TNG), specialized groups serving young adults between the ages of 18 and 35 who are interested in SM.

Bio Current as of February 1, 2011

2011 Presentations:

THE DYNAMICS OF CO-TOPPING - with Lolita
One of the most common pick-up scenes around is co-topping. Two (or more) tops standing around, one (or more) victims prime for the hunt. Game on, right? Sometimes it can lead to the most exciting and satisfying scenes…and other times they can be absolute disasters. Lolita and Boymeat have been co-topping together for years, and as switches have bottomed to many a dynamic duo. With years of study and thought, they have learned firsthand what works when co-topping…and what doesn't. It's not as simple as it looks. They'll share with you why and how to pull it off successfully. Then they're turn their attention to a lovely victim…er…volunteer, for a co-topping demo of deliciousness.


WATERSPORTS - Or, How I've Come To Love The Pee
Remember what your parents told you? Don't play with your pee in the bathroom? Well forget that. Piss play can be dirty, humiliating, and naughty. It can also be warm, wet, and fun. Come and learn how even your recycled water can be perverted. We'll be covering the whats, whys, hows, and safety of it all.

SURVIVING CORPORAL 101 - How to Handle the Physical and Emotional Effects
Pain is a very complicated thing, and creates a myriad of responses in the body. There is the physical side (Ow, fuck! Jeez, how can he take that!) Then there are the emotional effects; the multitude of emotions and thoughts that go through one's head through pain. Processing pain, while so simply stated in this world, is actually quite difficult at times. In this class we will talk about how to handle the pain both inside and out. We will explore why we endure it, where it takes us and what we can get out of it.

2008 Presentations:
FOOT FETISHISM - It Ain't Just For Bottoms Anymore
OK, so we all know about playing with backs, pecs, and thighs... now how about feet? Is it possible to have a foot fetish, and be a sadist at the same time? This class will go over some of the basics as to what foot fetishism is, along with how to torture those things at the ends of our legs. We will be covering abrasion, temperature sensation, flogging, paddling, and the crowd favorite, Bastinado. There will also be a few secret surprise techniques thrown in at the end.

THE JOY OF CANES - Caning 101
No, we're not talking about your walking stick... We're talking about long, slender implements of pain and pleasure. This class is designed to give the ABCs on caning, from an exploration of the different kinds of materials used, to basic, sensual techniques. We will also throw in some of the harsher ways of playing... just for fun. ;-)

THE TABOOS OF INCEST ROLE PLAY
Incest is one of the last standing taboos in the world of sexuality today. Just mentioning the word creates a myriad of responses... from fear, apprehension, and disgust to guilty grins, slight arousal, and downright lust. And once you move beyond the literal term, and enter the world of fantasy role play, all things become possible. Daddy, boy, Mommy, girl, brother, sister… like Master and slave, top and bottom, but with an edge. This class will cover the whats, hows, and whys of playing with familial roles, both in sexual/scene contexts, and as a way of defining relationships themselves. Please note - this class is for consenting adults only, and does not involve or endorse actual acts of incest. Sensitive, sometimes volatile topics will be discussed.

SURVIVING CORPORAL 101 - How to Handle the Physical and Emotional Effects
Pain is a very complicated thing, and creates a myriad of responses in the body. There is the physical side (Ow, fuck! Jeez, how can he take that!) Then there are the emotional effects; the multitude of emotions and thoughts that go through one's head through pain. Processing pain, while so simply stated in this world, is actually quite difficult at times. In this class we will talk about how to handle the pain both inside and out. We will explore why we endure it, where it takes us and what we can get out of it.